While culture is a great way to connect with people and to work from a common set of beliefs and understandings, it’s not necessarily a great guide for how we should think and act at all times. This is because everyone is different, and our lives are all different, and so while some cultural elements are good, some might not fit with our desires and wants.


For instance, the culture of working as an executive in a city centre seems interesting and fun, but what if your soul cries out for the hard work, slow mode of living and knowing all of your neighbors that a rural farming community can provide you? The city culture might not ever ‘approve’ of this approach, and so it’s a decision you have to make yourself.

So, sometimes, we have to make the right choice for our own needs, even if that means giving up everything you may have built already. In this post, we’ll discuss how you can figure out where to start with that, and where to orient yourself in the first place.

Consider Your Real Needs

Consider the real needs you might have. It’s okay if you need less than you currently have and you feel as though taking the time to streamline your life is most important. For some people, the desire to write a book with no distractions, finally getting around to a plan they’ve had for a while, requires deactivating their social media accounts and spending some time in a rented room in a remote part of the country. For others, perhaps their children have flown the nest and reading this guide to downsizing your home is the most necessary task. Sometimes, our wants can obfuscate our real needs. Don’t be afraid to go searching for what those may be.

Prioritized Goals

Prioritized goals are worth considering in the best context. Not only must we decide what we may want in life, but what’s most important to us out of those options. Prioritized goals can help us focus on approaching our needs in the best manner. Perhaps we might believe that actually, a career change to an industry we really want to work in supercedes settling down right now. Okay – so, what educational institutions could you attend to make this process yours?  Taking the time to add value assessments can make a huge difference going forward.

Your Hidden Indulgences

We all have hidden indulgences, but it can be nice to interact with them once in a while and proudly do so. For instance, it might be that despite your cool exterior, you’re actually something of a massive nerd. It can be nice to reply to a public dungeons and dragons group then, in order to flex this side of your personality as a hobby. Perhaps you love sports, or you just want to dance. Making room for exploring who you really are is how you find out what you really need in life, because authenticity is the key that unlocks even more doors.

With this advice, you’re sure to properly figure out exactly what it is that you need in life.